Friday, October 25, 2019

Are Meghan and Harry Enabling Each Others' Immaturity?

SURELY IT'S A RHETORICAL QUESTION. Another such question might be,  has this  'royal' couple just committed social suicide with his family in England who have treated them like, well, a king and queen?    Have they assured they will have an adversarial relationship with the fawning tabloid press from now on?
Whatever Meghan and Harry may have wished to achieve with their African trip interview, might they have found a more appropriate way to whine about how shabby their royal existence is in England and in the celebrity jet set of Meghan's other life than doing it with the backdrop of extreme poverty and child starvation in Africa?

Actually, it's doubtful that either Meghan or Harry could have done it differently.  Both are rudderless loose cannons and massively entitled (ungrateful), unrealistic,  immature kids.  Meghan's marriage to Harry was always about her and getting whatever she wants.  I suppose Harry marrying her was and is about reliving his mother's life and death and fighting straw men with fake heroism. There were many reasons for Diana's early death and as tragic as it was, she played a big role in it. It was not just the press.

 The Meghan/ Harry marriage was never about joining the royal family firm and taking on noble causes that focus on people and groups less fortunate than themselves. It's clearly about them, their hurts,  their hopes, their desires to bend and control reality to their unrealistic demands. It's about undermining everything royal protocol.  I can only imagine what the Queen must be thinking.  Thank goodness for William and Kate.  They are all right to be worried about Meghan and Harry.

If Meghan and Harry detest the dreaded tabloid press so much, then why not just quietly withdraw from so much contact with it rather than tossing it fresh meat every day?.  Why doesn't Meghan quietly mend her fences with her father and put that saga behind them? Why doesn't Harry get back to working on things that really interest him rather than letting Meghan lead him around by the nose so he can dutifully virtual signal?

Stop the blame.  Stop the ingratitude.  Lay low for a while and let the dust settle.

What's to become of Harry and Meghan in the years ahead?  I give their shifting sand marriage only a few years unless they set out to grow themselves up and start taking responsibility for their own problems both individually and as a couple. Otherwise, I don't see a happy outcome for either of them or their little baby boy.  Hope I'm wrong here, but there it is.

 

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