HONEY, DIDN'T EVEN HIS NAME CLUE YOU IN?I NEVER GOT THE ATTRACTION BETWEEN SANDRA AND JESSE, HER CELEBRITY MECHANIC HUSBAND, IN THE FIRST PLACE. Perhaps it's because he's always come across as a dirt bag on a dirt bike. Or perhaps it was because I first saw him in an undershirt with horrific tattoos all over his body. Frankly, you could show me the most fabulous man on earth---a master of the universe, master of the Internet, a government or business executive--- none of which Jesse is---in an undershirt with tattoos and I would run kicking and screaming out of the room. I find it vulgar, like a character from the deep underworld.
When I find a man vulgar or profane, it's over for me. Completely over. Whether it's business or personal. Sometimes it takes me a while to come out of denial about it, but now I do sooner rather than later. When a man is vulgar and profane, you can count on him being unfaithful---to any and all women in his life--- to his values under pressure, to whatever integrity he thinks he has.
Unlike men, who apparently get superficially turned on by women in scantily clad underwear or novelty nude, I find manly men much more attractive in fully-clothed mode. It speaks volumes.
The fact that the tattooed Jesse James had an 11-month affair with a porn star and woman who is tattooed from head-to-toe doesn't surprise me at all. In fact, busy actress Sandra is the last to know the facts of life about men. She may be a great actress, but she's stupid when it comes to choosing a life partner. Choosing Jesse was a joke.
He's sorry (he got caught, to be exact) and also a sorry dirtbag. Perhaps there could be some unexpected reconciliation down the road, against all odds. But, like cities building billion-dollar convention centers in hard times, I wouldn't put money on it or buy the bonds. Jesse is a rat who's attracted to other rats. Only God can change that. And until and unless He does, there's nothing but heartache and fast-track learning ahead for Sandra who is now reportedly in hiking.
My sympathies to both of them. The 'sexier' the man and the more addicted he is to fast women, cigarettes and alcohol, the more addictive he is to the women he hangs with. It's always heartache for them.....cause they're stuck like glue to him and to his sleazy drama. One more thing while I'm at it: A woman who can't truly leave any man---for good reason or no reason at all--- is not a woman who can ever really have him either.
NY Post has the full story.
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